The Ten Commandments Award!

Praise God from Whom all blessing flow!!

A special thank you goes to Sebastian at Faith 1st Ministries, –  for honoring me with the nomination for The Ten Commandments Award—it is indeed an honor! Thank you so much!

RULES: The rules for this award are that you must answer the following ten questions and nominate ten blogs that you think deserve the award.

1. Describe yourself in seven words:  Christian, blessed, husband, passionate, adventurous, enthusiastic, gracious

2. What keeps you up at night? Work…that’s why I get to blog so often 🙂

3. Who would you like to be? Myself, the way God made me…Ps 139!

4. What are you wearing now? Track pants, jumper, beany…it’s cold here!

5. What scares you? My wife…just kidding sweetheart 😉 Most people might say dying, but I’m not afraid to die because I’d be with the Lord…however, I am afraid of how I may die!!!

6. What are the best and worst things about blogging? The best part of blogging is becoming acquainted with new people and the global ministry potential it provides!

The worst thing about blogging – not sure really, but it could become a real timewaster if not used well.

7. What was the last website you looked at? .

8. If you could change one thing about yourself what would it be?
Diligence in prayer, the Word, and fitness lol… But personality wise, not a thing. God made me who I am and I’m happy to be me.

9. Slankets, yes or no? Never heard of a slanket, so I guess no…

10. Tell us something about the person who nominated you.
Sebastion from Faith First Ministry nominated me for this award. He is a minister of the Gospel, leading Faith 1st ministries, pastoring in Fairburn, Georgia in the US. If you’re ever there, you should pop in to see him! I’d love to one day myself! If you want to know more about him, visit his blog at

My ten nominations are:

1. – I always have to nominate Krissy for any award, coz she’s a legend!


3. – love the grace message brought in this blog, so true!

4. – coz she nominated me once and I like her blogs too 🙂


6. – very encouraging words here

7. – missionaries to the outback!



10. – good for marriage advice 🙂

Influence the world around you…

Jeremiah 15:9, “If you return to Me, I will restore you so you can continue to serve Me. If you speak good words rather than worthless ones, you will be My spokesman. YOU MUST INFLUENCE THEM; DO NOT LET THEM INFLUENCE YOU!”

When I was a teenager, I lived like this- I was influencing others all around me for Christ. I didn’t do the things they did and I got teased for it. I stood out like a sore thumb, but no one could deny I was a Christian. But something happened along the way- I gave up trying to influence the world, and I allowed it to influence me. The only answer is repentance and doing the first works I did before.

I derived three points from this verse above that really spoke to me and encouraged me, so I trust it will do the same for you.

1. Repentance. “If you return to Me, I will restore you so you can continue to serve Me…”

By repentance comes restoration of relationship to God, and out of your relationship with God comes the grace and ability to serve Him. So many people try to serve Him without maintaining a relationship with God. As I look back on my own time in ministry, I started out in faith and victory, but I failed to maintain my personal relationship with God. This ended in burnout, which affected my other relationships…with my wife, my leaders and the people to whom I came to minister in the first place. My wife and I argued, as did my leaders and me, and now a church we re-established is without a pastor- again. So it is VITAL to the kingdom of God for us to maintain a relationship with God, above all things.

2. Right confession. “If you speak good words rather than worthless ones, you will be My spokesman…”

Anyone representing Christ needs to have a right confession and faith in the One whom they confess. So many of us focus on our problems instead of the solution – being CHRIST! Confess good words- God’s Word in your life, stop being negative, no matter what situation you find yourself in and be a spokesman for God! Adjust your attitude and speak right! I know it sounds easy, but it’s not…it’s not easy to change a habit of negativity, BUT you CAN do all things through CHRIST who gives you strength- God keeps His Word- so stay in faith and have a right confession.

3. Influence the world around you. “You must influence others; do not let them influence you!”

We have been set apart from the world. We may be in the world, but we are not of the world. The only way to influence the world is to be radically different from it. How? Simply by your actions. By not doing the same things everyone else is doing. Standing up and saying no will bring persecution to you, you will stick out like a sore thumb…that means you are being effective! It’s working! Why? Simply because you are being different! Once you become different from the world, you are in the best position to influence them to Christ. Jesus showed the world a different way to live. He was persecuted and killed for it, but He rose again and now look at the difference He has made in so many people’s lives for eternity.

Influence the world around you, be different. God bless…


The Fear of Man – 1 Samuel 21

“David heard these comments and was very afraid of what King Achish of Gath might do to him. So he pretended to be insane, scratching on doors and drooling down his beard.” (1 Sam 21:12-13)

In this chapter, David flees to Nob and sees Ahimelech the priest. He gives him holy bread and sends him off with the sword of Goliath, to help him in his matter that he kept hidden. So David didn’t let him know he was running from Saul, but said Saul sent him on a secret mission. So David fled to King Achish of Gath, a Philistine king. But when the officers started talking to Achish about him because he was a famous warrior in Israel, he feared for his life and pretended to be a madman. Well, it worked and Achish sent him away, wanting nothing to do with him!

What I noticed in verses 12 and 13, is that it was fear that caused David to act differently in front of the king and everyone. Fear makes us act contrary to who we really are. David was not a madman, but because he feared what man might do to him, he acted like one. Love, however, along with faith will cause us to be whom God has created us to be. God did not give us a spirit of fear, but of love, power and a sound mind. He hasn’t called us to live in fear, acting contrary to who we are- He has called us to live free of the fear of man and to act boldy in the faith God gives us, because He loves us. We are called to fear God, not man. Cursed is everyone who fears man, (Jer 17:5) so fear God- and be yourself in Him.

“Father, thank You that I am fearfully and wonderfully made, created to be free from the fear of man and to love, fear and obey You, and learning to be who I am in You. Help me not to act contrary to the person You made me to be, because of the fear of man, but to live out of the nature of God within me, by Your Spirit in me- out of love and faith, in Jesus’ name, amen.”

*Prov 29:25; Ecc 12:13-14; Jer 17:5; 2 Tim 1:6-7

Grace – Ruth 2

“Ruth fell at his feet and thanked him warmly. ‘What have I done to deserve such kindness?’ she asked. ‘I am only a foreigner.’” (Ruth 2:10)

In this chapter, Ruth asks permission from her mother-in-law, Naomi, if she could go to work, to help gather in the harvest. So off to work she goes, asking workers if she could follow along the other harvesters, picking up the stalks of grain they left behind. She just so happens to come to the field of a wealthy and influential man named Boaz, but not only that, she discovers he is one of her dead husbands closest relatives, a family redeemer. Boaz is exceptionally kind to her and tells her to stay in his field, not to go to other fields, lest she be harassed. He makes sure she is treated properly, ordering the young men to not give her a hard time, feeds her and even tells his workers to leave grain on the ground on purpose for her. So after her first day of work, she brings home a good amount of grain for her and Naomi, who was very blessed by it and by the news that she was working with Boaz.

Ruth was overwhelmed at the kindness of Boaz, that she asked him what she had done to deserve such kindness, since she was only a foreigner. Boaz goes onto tell her how he had heard of all her kindness to Naomi, and that was the reason why. But you know, many people experience the kindness and goodness of God and ask why. We haven’t deserved any of it. Have you heard people say, “I am only…” this and that, putting themselves down, knowing they don’t deserve God’s forgiveness and kindness? There is one word to describe this situation- GRACE. Grace means undeserved favour. All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God, but by grace through faith, we are forgiven and saved! It is by grace we are saved, and we receive it through faith- believing that God will and does forgive us, doing what He has promised to do! Believe and receive His GRACE that none of us deserve, amen!

“Father, thank You that it is by grace through faith that I am saved and forgiven! Thank You for Your marvellous grace toward us who believe in You, and I will praise You for it for the rest of my life, in Jesus’ name, amen.”

*Rom 3:10-12, 21-24; Eph 2:8-10

Who’s following you? – Ruth 1

“But Ruth replied, ‘Don’t ask me to leave you and turn back. Wherever you go, I will go; wherever you live, I will live. Your people will be my people, and your God will be my God. Wherever you die, I will die, and there I will be buried. May the Lord punish me severely if I allow anything but death to separate us!’” (Ruth 1:16-17)

The book of Ruth is a wonderful account of how a Moabitess is accepted into the Israelite community and ends up being in the lineage of the Messiah! It starts off in this chapter telling of a woman named Naomi. Her and her husband Elimelech were from Bethlehem in Judea, and they had two sons, Mahlon and Kilion. Because there was a severe famine in the land, they moved to the land of Moab where their two sons ended up marrying Orpah and Ruth- the focus of the story. In Moab, Elimelech dies, and ten years later, Mahlon and Kilion also dies. So Naomi is left with her two daughters-in-law. When she hears that the Lord has blessed the land of Judah again, she decides to go back to her homeland with her daughters-in-law, but on the way tells them both they should go home and find security with new husbands. Orpah, though sad, goes home. But Ruth is determined to stay with Naomi and makes a covenant with her, making the God of Naomi her God as well as everything else, and commits to even die where she dies.

The love that Ruth must have had for her mother-in-law, to make her commit her whole life to her, that she even changed who she worshipped! She left the old ways and customs and gods of the Moabites, to serve the living God of Naomi. My question today is, who’s following you? Has anyone lately decided to give up all they have, all their old ways and customs and even gods, just to follow the God who lives in you? I know that no one has with me yet! Maybe it’s because we are not really shining the light of Christ, allowing the love of God to shine through us. It’s a powerful thought, and very challenging- oh to influence others so much so, that they would change their whole lifestyle and outlook on life- their deepest values to follow the God you serve! Paul said be imitators of me, as I am of Christ! We need to walk as Jesus walked, an example for others to really follow. Amen.

“Father, I pray You would cause me to be an influence on others, that they would turn and follow You with all their heart, giving up all the old ways they used to live. Let me be an example in the world around me and the people You place in my path of relationship, that I may win some for Christ- in Jesus’ name, amen.”

Pray for our leaders – Judges 21

“In those days Israel had no king; all the people did whatever seemed right in their own eyes.” (Judges 21:25)

Israel has now lost a tribe- the tribe of Benjamin. There are only 600 men left and Israel now feels sorry for their brother. So they work out an idea to get wives for their brother.They made two vows: that none of them were to give their daughters in marriage to any man from Benjamin, and that anyone who did not show up to Mizpah with all Israel to fight Benjamin, would be put to death. So they discovered Jabesh-Gilead did not assemble with them at Mizpah, so they ordered that all the men and women who were not virgins be killed, and all the virgin daughters be taken and given to the remaining Benjamites. They found 400 virgins, so they were short by 200! Their next plan for the remaining was to snatch the women at the annual festival at Shiloh- that worked! And when their fathers and brothers would protest, the elders of Israel would tell them to be sympathetic, for they never found wives for the remaining, and they wouldn’t be guilty of breaking their vow, because they didn’t actually give them away!

There’s a theme that has run through this book to suggest that without good leadership, the people go astray. When the Shephard is gone, the sheep scatter- or, when the cat’s asleep, the mice come out to play! All throughout, when one Judge died, the people did evil in the sight of the Lord, and from chapter 18, it begins to say and ends the book with, “in those days Israel had no king; all the people did whatever seemed right in their own eyes.” This just confirms what this whole book is about: the need for good, strong leadership. The sins in this book grew worse from idolatry to full on rape and murder, leading to a whole tribe being massacred and almost being wiped out- all because the people had no king! Without a vision, the people cast off restraint. If there are no laws, the land becomes lawless. Man needs restraint, therefore, man needs a leader to cast vision and lead them in the right direction. The Bible says to pray for our leaders, and we need to do that more than ever. If we don’t, we will see our towns and communities and our nation cast off restraint- and that means chaos.

“Father, I pray for our leaders, in our nations, towns, communities and churches- that You would strengthen them and lead them into Your purposes in these last days. I pray for faithfulness in our leaders, that Your church would remain strong and rise up, fulfilling its mandate on the earth. I pray for the sheep, that they would be safe in Your fold, in Jesus’ name, amen.”

*Prov 29:18;

United we stand, divided we fall – Judges 20

“So all the Israelites were completely united, and they gathered together to attack the town.”

In this chapter, after hearing from the Levite whose concubine was murdered, all the Israelites came in complete unity to attack Gibeah. Since the tribe of Benjamin wouldn’t hand over the evildoers from Gibeah, but instead all of Benjamin came to defend them, Israel had no choice but to attack the whole tribe. They asked the Lord which tribe should go first, and He responded with Judah. So they went to attack, but were defeated the first two days of the battle, losing 40,000 men. After each day they wept before the Lord, seeking direction from God as to whether they should continue to attack them, because they were losing. But God told them after the second day that He would hand them over to them the third day. So this time, Benjamin was ambushed and defeated, and almost a whole tribe was wiped out, leaving only 600 men who escaped to the rock of Rimmon.

The Israelites faced a situation they had never faced before, dealing with a rebellious brother, who had done the worst sin Israel had ever faced since coming out of Egypt. The only way they were going to defeat them is if all of Israel were completely united as one man. The Levite challenged them to make their decision here and now, and the response was remarkable. Despite losing 40,000 men, they still decided to seek God about what to do and went on with the battle in unity- no one gave up the fight even though they were losing it. So because of this, God gave Benjamin to them and defeated them, purging Israel from the sin. Just as Israel was united and won the victory, the church today needs to be united if we are going to see victory after victory. The early church was united the same way and saw souls added daily, then multiplied- remember, united we stand, divided we fall. So stay in unity and don’t forsake the assembling of yourselves together.

“Father, thank You for the church and the power You have made available to us in Christ. I pray as Jesus prayed- that we would be one as You and the Son are One. May we abide in You and You in us, that we may walk in the victory You have ordained for us, seeing souls added and multiplied to Your church, in Jesus’ name, amen.”

*John 17; Acts 2:1-4,42-47; Heb 10:24-25